Barbara Outland Baker, who lived with the terminator for six years, advises women not to trust him
Barbara Outland Baker, the first American friend of Arnold Schwarzenegger, who met with him from 1969 to 1975, shared with the Daily Mail newspaper his predictions about the future of love “terminator”.
These forecasts are the most disappointing. “I think he lost what was to him the dearest of family, and may have lost his last chance at happiness. I’m not saying he can’t find a partner for sex – there might be standing a million women, but gone are the days when he could count on a real relationship. One he does not believe.
Maybe now, hit the bottom, it will reveal who you really are, but I’m not so sure about that. I’m worried about him and I wish him all the best.”
62-year-old Barbara – a great specialist in Schwarzenegger. Their six-year affair feat to write her memoirs “Arnold and me: in the shadow of the Austrian oak.” There it is, in particular, has told about how Arnold was persuaded to lose her virginity with him (she at the age of 21 is still kept for the future husband) and about how in the beginning of the novel it seemed to her that the planet did not know such love as she had with Schwarzenegger. After the love relationship ended, they with Arnold remained friends and occasionally intersect. However, the last three years they did not speak, and Barbara don’t know how Arnold is going through the scandal of divorce – but can guess about his feelings and about the feelings of his wife Maria Shriver.
“I was in shock that he indecently behaved – had an affair with the housekeeper! Such a ridiculous decision, choice boys! This is just the height of betrayal to his wife – not just to have an affair on the side, but to have an affair with a woman she trusted. I feel so sorry for her and her children. They will now have to live with it, and it will cast a shadow on all of their past. Incidentally, I don’t think of Mildred Baena (housekeeper. – Ed.) was his only friend!”.
When in 1975 Barbara and Arnold decided to leave, he confessed to her what was wrong. “I always felt that he was cheating but he always denied it. And when I showed proof, he turned the case so that I have been a fool! And in the end we went to lunch, and he said, “Well, I cheated on you, but to me these moments were very embarrassing”.
According to Barbara, the root of all problems Arnold in a difficult childhood: “he had a terribly dysfunctional family. So did not pay attention to the father who preferred to communicate with his eldest son that Arnold constantly had to prove that he is worth something. It is an unconscious desire to prove that you are worth something – there is the majority of bodybuilders!”